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What are our sources for this work?

In the wake of searing personal crises, I found a spiritual path eight years ago in “A Course in Miracles.” The focus of this modern-day spiritual classic is on relationships, uniquely so among major spiritual paths.  As my work with the Course helped clarify relationship issues for me, I found myself drawn to more completely embodying the masculine principle while also feeling a pull to reconnect with the feminine principle in a different way.  These complementary desires found physical expression in a fascination with mastering the Argentine Tango.  I was surprised to discover just how many personal and spiritual challenges would surface for me in the pursuit of learning a social dance.  I had considered myself a well-educated, reasonably aware and spiritually alert person – but I felt distinctly unprepared by my cultural background for the challenges that tango laid at my feet.  

In responding to these challenges, I sought and found guidance from my spiritual path, but also found myself discovering exciting connections with current intellectual work, contemporary teachers, and world spiritual traditions that addressed the issues I was experiencing in exploring the world of tango.  In terms of our tango background, Daniel Trenner’s vanguard work in bringing tango to North Americans was a tremendous initial influence on both of us.  Deb and I started Dance of the Heart in September 1999, in large measure due to his example with Bridge to the Tango.  As we studied tango, we found ourselves drawn especially to the pioneering “transcend-and-include” work of Gustavo Naveira, Fabian Salas, and “Chicho” Frumboli.  In their attempt to preserve the cultural foundations of tango while also seeking a comprehensive way of studying tango’s possibilities, their work has come to be known as “Nuevo Tango.”  Within this direction in tango, we have benefited tremendously from Gustavo Naveira’s personal instruction, as well as interpretations and expansions of his work by Brigitta Winkler, Luciana Valle and Tomas Howlin.  These tango maestros keep our work grounded in the authentic heritage of the dance. As Deb and I began to serve our local tango community in the role of teachers and organizers, I observed that my own challenges in discovering tango were played out over and over again in the experience of the students we were introducing into community.  Within the context of teaching the dance, over the last five years or so we have sought to enrich our teaching with the lessons we learned from working on our own challenges.  But the internal pressure slowly began to build for me to more formally present some of the connections I found so exciting between tango and other contemporary spiritual explorations.  This essay represents my attempt to draw these connections for a diverse audience, and to lay a foundation for our future work.

It’s important for me to appropriately credit other sources of wisdom that have led to this work. In addition to the act of divine grace which led me to “A Course in Miracles,” I gratefully acknowledge the work of Marianne Williamson (“A Return to Love”), Roger Walsh (“Gifts from a Course in Miracles”, “Essential Spirituality”) and Jack Groverland of Unity of Boulder, who became my primary guides toward and through the Course’s lessons. Jack and the Unity family provided two crucial years of fellowship and transitional support while I explored the Course’s meaning for me. The other primary sources for this synthesis included:  

- The "Consciousness Map" work of Ken Wilber and the Integral Institute , which provides the big-picture conceptual glue to tie it all together, as well as the integral vision that led to the Integral Transformative Practice approach to tango,  

- the energy-anatomy work of Carolyn Myss, which helps to explain in modern terms the explosive subtle-energy feelings of heart-opening awakening I experienced during what appears to be "only a social dance",  

- The "Gender Spirituality" work of David Deida, which shows the way for leaders and followers in the dance to step up and fully inhabit their role, for the sake of both themselves and their partners,  

- The contemporary Tantra explorations of Charles & Caroline Muir and Stephanie Stone, which link our work with those tantrikas from the past who saw this electrically charged "man-woman stuff" as (simply, delightfully) one more thing a cultured person would want to understand and practice well.  

- my partner Deborah's fourteen years of training in “The Livingston Practice”, also known as David Livingston's Acting Workshop, which helps people discern the “real” from the “superficial” in their interactions with their partners. We’re especially inspired to bring into play the insights I gained in almost two years of weekly work with Deb in her Actor’s Workshop.  Inspired by the Livingston Practice, Deb’s class enabled me to bring my authentic emotional life into expression with a “scene partner” for the sake of theatrical expression.  Tango social dancing has been described as “a theatrical event where all those present are both on stage and in the audience.”  If I can break through my habits of social superficiality with a given partner, my experience shows that the dance experience becomes much deeper. But the ability to do so consistently requires training.  Mastering the skill of shifting social context from lightweight socializing to deep intimacy will tend to maximize tango’s  transformational opportunities – especially if one’s partner is not attuned to the transformational practice one is using.

 

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